**************WARNING! LONG POST AHEAD!*************
I am trying to figure out how best to post some photos and everything that i try is taking eons. There are a few on a photobucket account under indiamazing, but even that takes forever. More info on the photos later...
Now i have been here for a few days and i am just beginning to get a sense of the crazy place that I am living. I continue to stay with the Deshmukh family and they continue to be incredibly generous with their time, home, affection, delicious food and much more! I am getting internet here at their home, but the connection is on and off so I find myself trying to post a blog entry and then ending up saving a draft because the internet dies! Oh well...
For a quick recap of the past few days that I have not posted any updates:
-Lord krishna's birthday was an impressive festival and quite a sight to be seen! I tried to describe the human pyramids and whatnot before I had seen them but I since a picture is worth a thousand words, i took lots of pictures! That was my first day here and in the afternoon, I went (by car) around the northern mumbai area (Bandra, where they live) with Prajakti (home mother) and Rhea (Prajakti's daughter's best friend - her daughter is studying at Emerson currently) and Pooja, another close friend of Prajakti's daughter). It was a blast! We went driving around so that I could get a sense of the area, found people in the street breaking open a vessel, stopped in the middle of the road, watched, and then continued on our way.
-After the drive, we parked and went to have a coffee at a fun little place called "just around the corner." Coffee and tea is everywhere here and, even more than at home, the coffee shops are where all of the youth go to just hang out! (welcome to my life, at home and now here...)
-other interesting event include the sat sungh that I attended that evening (i have no idea how to actually spell this, but it means sitting in the presence of truth). Prajakti is quite religious and is a teacher of the "Art of Living" courses that were started by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar (dad, not the musician). There are photos of her master all over the house and she strings new and vibrant marigold chains over them daily. This practice has a lot to do with meditation and breathing and inner peace, so the service that I went to was basically an entire room full of people sitting on the floor in front of an enormous shrine, singing, chanting, drumming, and praying for about 2 hours. wow. As a mainly unpracticing Jew, it was a big dose of religion for my first day in India but it was an eye-opening experience for sure. It was also quite perfectly timed (although i was exhausted... 9.5 hour time difference)because the meditation and silence gave me some time to think about where I am, what religion means to me, what I want to learn from this trip, and to reflect on how I came to be here... in India. Enough philosophizing. At any rate, that was beautiful and I have pictures of that as well! That concludes my first real day in India which was clearly rich and full and exhausting.
Wednesday------------------------------------------------------
-Fish Market!!!!!! When I awoke in the morning, after breakfast, I was told to dress quickly, not have a bath (shower), and we were going to the matchi market! I had been warned by anyone who heard of my plan to accompany Prajakti to the fish market that it was dizgusting and smelly and I should not go. But I was determined (all for you, dad). So i hopped into an autorickshaw with Prajakti and down to the market we went! Again, wow. It was like a low-cieling warehouse full of all women crouched on little crates in front of plywood tables of all different kinds of seafood. I have pictures, but imagine little Indian women in colorful saris crouched in front of piles and piles of fish, prawns, crabs, more fish, squid, clams, everything! Then, when you went over to them they would scream out (hey lady! buy this! very fresh!) in Hindi. When you wanted to buy fish, you told them how much money of whatever kind you wanted and they would skillfully clean it right there on the spot for you in about 1 minute flat with their curved knife. Even my father, fish master, could take a lesson from these women! *again pictures* We were there for a while collecting all kinds of seafood. From there we rushed home and had to immediately have a shower and send our clothes to laundry because everything (i mean everything... hair, clothes, etc.) smelled like fish!
I had a lazy afternoon after a delicious lunch at Basilico restaurant with Prajakti and some of her friends.
Thursday-----------------------------------------------------
-went to the cinema to see Ratatouille - the cutest little pixar film about a rat who becomes a chef. Side Note: film is life here! In Mumbai, the home of bollywood, it seems that everyone follows every detail of the film star's lives, their new movies and music videos, where they live, who they are seen with, what clubs they attend... everything! So the movie theatre was quite different than at home. Some main differences:
-reserved seating - an usher takes you to them
-an intermission - halfway through the film the screen goes to an intermission screen and everyone runs out to get snacks
-the popcorn is cheap (<$1) and amazing! you can get cheese, salted, or caramel (or a combo of any of them... delish!)
the movie was adorable and i will definitely go back to see many american and probably some hindi films!
When we got home, we had a quick lunch and then drove all the way into town (really its into the city... south mumbai is the main city area and where we live is the suburbs, but its definitely city enough!) to try to buy a sari for Prajakti. The drive takes forever because of insane traffic, insane drivers, and sooooooooo many people everywhere! I don't know how to describe the downtown city area except to say that you can imagine the most busy intersection of NYC, multiply the people by about 15 times, give it about 20 years of deterioration, each shop a quarter of the size, and this goes on forever! (Consequently, I am incredibly blessed to be living up north in the suburbs... and dont think that this means picket fences and green lawns - its closer to regular NYC up here!)Town was exhausting, so we got home and passed out early.
Friday------------------------------------------
Another incredibly full day and Prajakti's birthday!!! Friday (yesterday) included many firsts for me. I will start with my first adventure outside the house alone (I know it sounds like I have been here a while, seen a lot, and this should not be a big deal... but it is!) - I needed passport sized photographs in order to get a cell phone, so I decided to brave the weather and try to find the film studio so that I could get them done. Uncle drew me a great map and off I went, umbrella in hand to try to get photos. I swear as soon as i stepped out the door, down came the monsoon (think sheets of rain)! After a 15 minute walk through puddles, almost getting hit by a million cars and rickshaws, I made it to Mohans photo studio dripping wet. I got some horrible passport sized photos taken and was told to return in an hour... there was no way that I was going to leave and come back, so I went next door to a lovely book shop, immediately found Jane Austen's "Emma" which I had been craving, went upstairs to the cafe to get espresso (which I had also been craving surprisingly) and sat for a while until I could go back and get the photos. From there, I made my wet way back to the house where i arrived soaked and triumphant after my first solo outing!
Another exciting event was my acquisition of a cell phone! After successfully getting my passport sized photos, uncle was able to get a cell phone man to come to the house to 'cell' me a SIM card. My cell phone from the states still doesnt work, but they happened to have an extra one which they have lent to me. Incoming calls are free for me and can be very cheap for you over skype (check it out at www.skype.com) and I would love to hear all of your voices ringing through! (please remember that I am 9.5 hours ahead of EST)
my number is:
country code = 91
Mumbai code = 022
my cell = 9930076506
try any combo to get me... i dont know what you need to do!
-then, last night after a delightful birthday dinner for prajakti, Rhea and Ritika (sp?) took me out on the town! We ended up going to Hard Rock Cafe (a far cry from an indian club) and having a blast! It was mellow and crowded and great music that reminded me of home (and kevin coughlin) and I immediately found a Canadian (blond hair = dead giveaway) for a little bit of foreigner conversation. I am not here to find all of the white faces and isolate myself from Indian culture, but this was the first foreigner that I have talked to (and honestly, one of probably three that i have seen thus far) and it was really refreshing!
Saturday-----------------------------------
Now here I am, finally updating all of the events of the last few days (sorry for the obnoxiously long entry). Tonight is a big feast because Prajakti's nephew will be married in a few months, so this is like a wedding shower type dinner. When she gets home, she has said that I can help her cook (so that I can learn) and then about 25 relatives will come for dinner! family overload!
I hope that some of this has been interesting and I would love to hear from you via email. I am checking daily and try to write back almost as soon as I get an email... so please let me know any news from home/school, or wherever you may be (aviva, rach, jeski, jules, etc.) and love to all!